Yesterday was somewhat full on. All the family were here for a meal to celebrate what would have been Keith's 85th birthday. Gabby cooked it for us, bless her. (Venison steaks, veg and Potato Dauphinoise).
I am so lucky to have this on my doorstep. The slope to the left belongs to me, having been part of the much bigger estate but stayed with my plot when it was divided up for sale around 1900.
Without the help of the girls, there is no way I could have planned this trip on my own, having so little experience of foreign travel. Just the "what to pack" list made two pages, then there were short lists of important phone numbers, passwords, and we printed off all the necessary paperwork just in case it was needed. Any apps I might need went on my phone and Tam rearranged the layout so the important ones I would/might need were all on the same "page" at the front. Danny was very sensible and said that the middle week travelling looked worse than it was (on paper) as basically it was just travelling from A to B and stopping at a hotel en route, with outings. They all said just to break it down into little steps and it was going to be ok. . . . . and breathe . . .
Little Rosie has been an absolute joy, though very subdued with Danny here (hah, like my boy cats, who Stayed Outside as he was clearly Dodgy - yet they grew up with him!!). She will come up and ask for an 'Ug, although she did say cuddle a couple of times. When she bought me a photo of my dad which is on the little joint stool by the fireplace, I told her it was my dad, her g. grandad. Yesterday morning she carried it over to me again and gave it to me, looked up and said "dad" (meaning my dad). That just amazed me. She has such empathy and is so caring and loving. We are so close, and she asks for me every day (hoping I will visit). We will keep in touch via video call when I am in NZ.
The house was very quiet when they had all gone last night. I was absolutely shattered. I began getting ready for bed at 8.15 as I couldn't keep my eyes open any longer. I was out like a light and slept solidly for 5 hrs before Alfie asked to go out. Then I was Wide Awake of course!
So I have had a cup of tea and a piece of toast and will play a couple of games of Solitaire and drag myself back up to bed. Have to drive to the auction first thing tomorrow to pick up a musket which didn't sell, and then an hour in the opposite direction to go to my bank appt. in Brecon, to reinvest my ISA. Then back home, make my bed up fresh, strip the rest of the meat off the chicken and decide what to do with it (freeze it probably) and sort out perishables to give to Pam to use up.
Have a good day getting all the errands done. It's lovely that the family have got you so organised and ready for your holiday so you can enjoy every moment.
ReplyDeleteStill not excited. That will happen when I arrive/have caught up on sleep I guess. I couldn't have managed without my family.
DeleteVery full on for you at the moment, in a good way.
ReplyDeleteI thought about you and your family remembering your Keith.
Alison in Devon x
Thank you Alison. It was difficult at times, but so much happening, and a very active toddler, that distraction was helpful. Keith would want me to have this holiday, I know.
DeleteIt is snowing here, the first snow of the year. The cats woke me at 5:30 to go outside. They shot out the door but stopped dead in their tracks as soon as their paws met snow. They hesitated but finally decided to step off the porch. I went back to bed, but knew they were most certainly going to want back in in very short order. I was right. They sadly go from door to door asking to go out, hopeful that the weather might be nicer if that door gets open. Jennie, it will be a long winter here!
ReplyDeleteOh gosh - that IS going to be a long winter. I can just imagine what the cats thought of the white stuff! I shall be going into the late spring in NZ so it will hopefully be sunny and already it has been quite hot. Also Rosie said I will be blown away by all the Christmas preparations and yet it's coming up to summer!!
DeleteSending love and my very best wishes for a super trip. Looking forward to reading all about it and seeing the photos. Xx
ReplyDeleteThanks Gill. Just want to wave a magic wand and be there without the looooooooong flight inbetween!
DeleteThanks Gill. Kids have been sorting out my phone so I should be able to keep in touch ok.
ReplyDeleteSounds as if you celebrated Keith's birthday well. His birthday was the day after my Dad's.
ReplyDeleteOh, you will have been thinking about your dad too, bless him.
DeleteWhat a lovely way to spend celebrating Keith's birthday. Good for the children to tell you to just breathe. You have a lovely trip and I know everything will be just fine.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
Now it's all the practical things to do today. I'll cope, hopefully.
DeleteYou are so lucky to have such glorious countryside so close. I live in an area I dont really enjoy.
ReplyDeleteWhat a shame you aren't too keen on where you live, but I guess work is a tie. My husband, eldest daughter and I upped sticks utterly to move to Wales from England (when the attempts to move to the West Country were blocked and blocked - and have been all my life: we were MEANT to be in Wales) in the late 80s. Quite an adventure!
DeleteLovely to have all the kids with you for Keith's birthday. They are sure taking care of you!
ReplyDeleteYes, they are wonderful. My support system.
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