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Saturday, 24 October 2026

Influences - what were yours?

 Not InfluenCERS.  Books, people,  experiences.  You all know about my love of history and archaeology.  Folklore, myths and legends too.  The school library was helpful with this as I can remember getting out books on Greek Mythology, and our English teacher introduced me to Georgette Heyer.  We also read Rosemary Sutcliffe's The Eagle of the Ninth, which I adored.   Our history teacher was pretty useless - after learning about the Romans, history seemed to go downhill for me as it was all names and dates and absolutely nothing real about the people who had made that history or lived through it.  It wasn't until I left school and was able to read about the things which interested me that I could broaden my knowledge.  Not so much about archaeology as our local library only seemed to have books about Egyptian archaeology, and that soon palled.



I wasn't interested in sewing, but someone I shared a house with was making a hexagon patchwork quilt and thus began my interest in patchwork, helped by my visiting the American Museum at Bath.  Some amazing American quilts there.

I was an absolutely HOPELESS cook to start with - mum was too, so I could hardly learn from her - yet my gran had been an amazing cook, but it never got passed on to mum.  Yet I learned, and found an interest in baking, and learned to make my own bread in 1980, after going to an evening at Eling Tide Mill at Totton, where we were shown how to make bread by hand.  Since my dad's grandfather had been a Journeyman Baker, perhaps that came down in my genes.  My cheese bread was always very well received.

When I discovered John Seymour's book about Self Sufficiency, that was my way forward too - though the idea of ever owning five acres to be self sufficient on seemed unlikely!  I read all the books by Derek Tangye too, about their idyllic life on a Cornish cliff, growing daffodils and flowers for posies which went to London, and growing tomatoes too in the summer months.  Then I discovered Elizabeth West's Hovel in the Hills.  I read that so many times. She wrote a second one, Kitchen in the Hills.  I remember seeing that in a bookshop window in Rhayader, whilst on a coach trip to the Elan Valley (from Salisbury, when I lived there) and spent my lunch money buying it - think it was about 12/6d (that would be 65 pence now). Her third book was Garden in the Hills. They lived in North Wales, halfway up a mountain, in a cottage which really, had been for summer living when pasturing sheep up on the mynydd.  It certainly didn't lend itself to living in the winter as it was incredibly damp, leaked and was cold and miserable.  They lived on so little money that at the end of winter sometimes they were reduced to living off the garden weeds to have food inside them.  Things were extremely . . . basic.  All the same, they were inspiring, and her husband Alan was very practical.  



With the coming of the internet, in the early years of this century (gosh, that sounds rather Victorian doesn't it?), television programmes such Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall's wonderful River Cottage and Dick Strawbridge's It's Not Easy Being Green set up their own forums, which I joined.  There were programmes called Victorian Kitchen, the Victorian Farm, Edwardian Farm etc.  Have those on DVD and watch regularly.  My favourite was probably Tales from the Green Valley.  All so very "me".

I also discovered and joined a private online forum with mostly ladies who gardened, made bread, made soap, made jams, chutneys, jellies, cooked from scratch, baked, embroidered, made patchwork . . .  you get the picture.  They were a lovely bunch and I learned so much.  Sadly, these things never last forever.

When I met Keith, we were both interested in antiques, which my dad loved too - still remember watching Going for a Song with him.  We would look in Antique Shop windows, but because we didn't have any money to purchase anything, didn't want to waste the shop-owners' time by going inside "just to look". Keith and I went to Dorchester on a day out when we were first together and saw a sign for an auction at Stinsford School, right beside the beautiful church where Thomas Hardy's heart and his family members are buried.  Of course, we went, and the rest is history!



We ended up in Wales because I had a penpal here back in the early 1970s and holidayed at Ferryside, Carmarthenshire.  When we were househunting and the prices in the West Country (Devon) were going up literally week on week, I said why don't we look in Carmarthenshire?  Well, we did and Wales is still my home.

My degree course was a huge influence on my interest in archaeology and my main passion for Prehistory developed into a deep interest in the Pictish symbol stones, the subject of my Dissertation.  From this has grown my interest in Early Christian Monuments, and we have plenty of those all over Wales.  This has led to bothering Churches as that is where most of them are found :)

So, I would love to know what turned you into the person you are today, and what your passions and interests are.


P.S.  I did a quick shop this morning as I needed food for when Tam, Jon & Rosie are here Sunday - Tuesday, and picked up the latest Today's Quilter magazine.  I was half-tempted but put my glasses on to read the price.  £8.99!  I don't think so!


P.P.S.  Have Beef Goulash in the oven (very 70s), and am sat down with my embroidery watching, wait for it, Tales of the Green Valley, on Youtube.  Sat watching the rain outside and trees blowing around a bit.

24 comments:

  1. Wow, I loved reading this, and thank you for the memories, I too loved those sort of programmes and even now I prefer to watch practical stuff or with historical interest or beautiful places in them.
    Mum was a good ‘plain’ cook and a school cook at one time, she taught me most of my baking skills, I’ve never been any good at sewing or art but like to dabble sometimes and have learned to enjoy crafting for its own sake rather than as a means to an end.
    As to learning at school I’m afraid I didn’t always apply myself as much as I should, it didn’t help that the school I went to was changing from a Secondary Modern to a Comprehensive - I think maybe the Head and the teachers were so busy with the changes in admin and systems that teaching standards slipped a bit, thats my excuse and im sticking to it 😂
    We’ve moved around a lot, including living on a narrowboat for a while, that was a big adventure.
    We like living rural and have ended up in Devon to be nearer family.
    Alison in Devon x

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    1. I hated school and couldn't wait to leave. I was brighter than I gave myself credit for and when I went to Uni in my 40s, through the ACCESS scheme, had never written an essay in my life! I got a 2.1 and for my Dissertation, an Upper 1st, and it won the Society of Antiquaries dissertation prize (I shared it with a girl from Reading who had written about Roman temples - they couldn't chose between us).

      I tried so hard to get back to my Devon roots (dad's side of the family were there from Prehistoric times I reckon - got them back to the 1600s anyway) but it wasn't meant to be.

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  2. We seem to have started off reading the same books. My Mum introduced me to Georgette Heyer and Miss Read, but my Grans/Nanna had a huge influence on me as I spent so much time with them. My Welsh Nanna taught me to embroider and keep house. My other Grans, Great Granny lived until I was 15 taught me cooking, gardening and knitting. Gt. Granny had been the village Midwife and told me lots about living as family in a village with not much money, having to walk everywhere, killing the pig and sharing the meat out, so many tales. Mum gave me my love of cats and as she was a very good cook I picked up a lot. Dad played sport with me, mostly cricket (he would have liked a son). All in all I've been very lucky. Xx

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    1. I read all the Miss Read books, Catherine Cookson, Neville Shute - all the popular ones back in the day. You had some talented women in your family, who passed on their skills to you (perhaps not midwifery though!)

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  3. Influences well certainly not the idiots on social media. I remember my history lessons and reading ancient history which I did like but when it came to the bloody Holy Roman Empire I gave up. None of the books I read like Nevil Shute A town Like Alice did much for me or Lord of the Flys. I read a lot now but mostly detective storied, SiFi and some romance but that was not because of school.
    If any one influenced me it was the Blacksmith I worked for before I left school. He more or less taught me to drive at 15, just gave me the keys on a caravan site in Dorset and told be to get the milk while they put the kettle on. We had gone to open up the caravan for the season. He helped me get mu first job as an Apprentice Technician where I did very well. I ended up going around a lot of the world for the company. They were the first ones who made commercial MRI body scanners I saw the first one in the workshop though I made other types of equipment that went to University's. From there I went to work at Diamond Light Source to my retirement.
    I was influenced to visit all the churches around Builth Wells after coming across a website called Builth Churches by Phil Jones, Judith Hurford knew him. The book Oxfordshires Best Churches influenced me to visit all of them. My youngest son left schooland pushed broom around Diamond when I worked there and left when I did going to art collage getting a BA with Honours they when I took him to an exhibition we looked in this wood crafting shop there, with in a week he had signed up for a course then went on to do a the professional course and got himself a job at Didcot Railway center where he restores the old carriages and that is something I never saw coming. Different things influence people that is for sure

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    1. Gosh no - the occasional ones I come across (not by looking) do NOT impress me an iota! I think we know what sort of books we like. I hae a soft spot for Phil Rickman's novels which are set along the Welsh Marches and involve the Diocesan Exorcist - not especially scary, but jolly good stories about places I know and love.

      The Blacksmith you worked for certainly got you on the right path and you got to travel too, because of it. As for your son, he walked into his destiny that day and what a lofely job he has now. Very satisfying.

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  4. I should have said my oldest son was influenced by Video games and got a degree in game design, he now works in a totally different field

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    1. Your son clearly has a creative streak. My darling Keith was brilliant with wood too.

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  5. At school two teachers I have never forgotten, geography teacher and economics teacher. Geography teacher for my love of travel and the economics teacher who introduced me to the stock exchange and reading the financial pages of the newspaper. The economics teacher also taught us statistics which I loved as well and we took O level stats. In the lower school I have a great admiration for our arithmetic teacher, Sister Emmanuel, and all the things I learned like fractions and mental arithmetic which I have never forgotten although at the time I did not like her very much! My mum taught me dressmaking and sewing and all the basic cookery I learned from watching her. Dressmaking lessons at school bring back horrible memories but dressmaking with mum was great. Apart from all that rural life featured a lot in my childhood and still does and I wouldn't change that for anything. Great post and thanks for writing and telling us about your influences in life and inviting us to join in. Rachel xx

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    1. Economics - I'd have been a dunce at that. My brain isn't wired that way! Keith used to take the FT and had a small portfolio of shares. Then he lost £60,000 overnight with his gold shares when the Tokyo stockmarket shut over the weekend and dumped all their gold . . . That stopped us buying the cottage in Devon we were trying to buy (we could have bought it outright). Our house sale fell through too . . .

      It was all my mum could do to thread a needle - her mother's dressmaking skills certainly weren't passed on to her.

      I think rural living is a theme for quite a few of us here.

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    2. I think rural life was probably the biggest influence but all the other things went into the melting pot. By the way, I notice scrapbooks mentioned below. I still do scrapbooking. Rachel

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  6. I love the Quilter Today mags, my SIL sends me batches of her used copies.

    Influences: I guess just my parents, who had a set idea of who and what we kids were and should be. Oddly not really what they waned us to be tho...and not what we [my brother and I] wanted to be. We were also very limited due to their frugality, so no socializing w other kids, or camps, sports.
    School and university are a blur. Lonely, scary, boring.

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    1. I only occasionally buy that mag. If that is its permanent price now, it will be staying on the shelves!

      My dad wanted me to be a teacher, but the idea of more themed learning wasn't for me. A shame as I am actually a natural teacher. Ask Middle Daughter after we went round the wonderful Museum in Copenhagen, and I gave her a guided tour of the Archaeology!

      What did you study at Uni? What a shame your parents limited your socializing etc when you were growing up. We had no money but I had a lovely group of friends.

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  7. Good to hear you're a cook, parents and grandparents are very good at teaching us of my generation and older, I remember making pikelets with my nana and my mum teaching me how to make cheese sauce. have a nice weekend.

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    1. Hah yes - despite the absolutely tasteless mince and herbs which was my first attempt at cooking a main meal (no recipe and no knowlege of thickeners, flavourings, or even stock cubes!) My mother would have never made nor eaten a cheese sauce in her life. We didn';t even have baked beans in our house, or cheese on toast!!

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  8. From a very early age I told everyone I was going to be a carpenter, like Joseph in the Bible. I like making things but a carpenter i'm not. Can't saw a straight line for the life of me. A few years later (7-9 years old) I changed to wanting to be a vet very much based on reading James Herriot's books. Got all the way to being offered a place a vet school but didn't quite make the A-level grades. Was offered a place at med school but did biology instead and then went on to be a primary school teacher after a minimal one year post-grad course. Had to make it all up on the job. My passions now are horses, walking in wild places and gardening. All of our sons loved sci-fi as we do and wore out our Star Wars dvds watching them so many times. Oldest son went to space (summer) school at Leicester uni when he was 16 liked it so much he did a physics degree there. He did work on some of the data from the Beagle 2 and is now a research physicist in industry, and a heavy metal fan. Youngest son was 'playing drums' from the time he was a toddler. Top of the pops and our rock records and my piano playing must have been his influences. He now plays in an established band as well as working full time.

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    1. What a shame you didn't get to be a vet., but you got to be a teacher. You are very handy about the house and always sound to be sorting something out. Your oldest son clearly has a scientific brain, and other son a musical one. My son Danny got the politics gene, Gabby the hedonistic one (!) and Tam the practical and creative one. They are all really good cooks too.

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  9. What an interesting question - I was a reader from the get go - so definitely Mum (who would always turn to a book to find an answer)
    Genealogy - I came from a talking family, so a lot of family folklore handed down but being able to pin those stories to the tree is always exciting
    My main tool for earning $ is using computers to their limits, which was influenced by an absolutely useless secretary who wouldn't work well with women in the late 1980s - so I learned how to create templates and write macros.
    Poetry - my dad reciting, my reading, many other performances...
    Oh, and to answer your response to a comment a few days ago - yes, Australia.

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    1. Me too. I was so desperate for books once I learned to read that I stole one from the infant school classroom. I am sure the teacher noticed but knew how much I wanted to read and we didn't have books at home.

      Genealogy - I've been doing since the 1980s. My dad's Devon folk didn't drop far from the tree and at most, moved onto the next slightly bigger village for work. In the late 1870s when g.g.grandfather died in Moretonhampstead, the family decided to move to London (Hampstead), but my grandad moved back to Devon - family connections lured him back after both his parents died within a year or so of one another. The 2nd WW took my dad to the Romsey/New Forest area in the run up to D-Day and after the war they were in Southampton.

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  10. Where to begin, I suppose going to high school would be best up until then I was not much of a reader as we never had books at home except the Beano and Dandy comics my Dad bought for my brother and me. My mother used to send me to the library for the lady to choose some books for her but it was never suggested that I could get books from there but when I got to the big school it had a library and like you I read every book about the Greek myths that they had and then moved on to other novels that usually were set in places all over the world thus my love of travel started there. I left school when I was 15 very average student but I did like school, english, history, geography, drama and singing were my favorites and still are today. Was not very good at maths and sport. We used to have sewing one week and cookery the next, all I remember of cookery class is the dropping consistency of a cake mixture and how to scrub a wooden table. Sewing I enjoyed but never made anything I would be caught dead wearing except to go to bed in.
    When I left school and got an office job I used to buy fabric we called it material then, and make myself dresses by hand including sewing in 22 inch zips all by hand but my dads sister had a sewing machine and after a time would let me go to her house to use it, eventually Mum bought me a machine from the second hand sale room for 5 shillings it had a long bobbin and a handle to turn at the side. I've come a long way since then in every way I've travelled the world both before coming to Australia and even more since we retired 20 years ago, I used to dressmake for myself and our two daughters and in the last 20 years have made lots of quilts and other items of sewing and embroidery, as for books I have quite a collection and am like an addict I get the shakes if I don't have a book on the go, I have two kindles and a tablet all with books on them but there's just something wonderful about holding a book.
    I married when I was 26, thank goodness my husband could cook because I certainly couldn't so bought a big cook book and followed that with great care and am pleased to say I have improved greatly over the last 55.5 years.
    Thank you for your wonderful post and hope this wasn't too long. From Shirley.
    ps it has been very interesting reading everyone's stories.

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    1. I used to get four (pony!) books from the library every week and read them all in the week. Over and over I guess, as they didn't have a huge selection. I read one called The Horse on Ben Awe, and a horse died in it and I had nightmares and mum banned me from reading/going to the library. That was the worst punishment for something I couldn't help and lasted 6 mths . . . When I began work, I bought books and have had a houseful ever since - my own private library. I panic without a book . . .

      Sewing sounds like it comes naturally to you. Machine sewing and cutting out fabrics for quilts, is something I have to concentrate at or I get in a faff!! Better sewing by hand/embroidering. I have several kindles here(Keith's old ones too) and books on mine but I always forget they are there as I have a library book or one that my friend G has sent me.

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  11. I was raised by people that were born at the time that Queen Victoria was on the throne ( but only just ) so teenagers in WW1 and one of my regrets now is that I would so love to have conversations about their history but I was a child and only thought of childish things back then. They jammed and bottled and made wine. Make do and mend was just a part of normal life. I remember shoes being mended at home and a blackboard was made for me using board and paint. Parcels really did come in brown paper wrapped up with string, the paper and string being carefully folded and put in the kitchen table drawer for reuse. Meals were homemade not a burger or pizza in sight. I was sent to an elderly lady in the evening twice a week along with 3 others where we learnt to sew, embroider and knit. Scrapbooks for the hospital children's ward were made from birthday cards people had saved for her. I have always had a love of reading but not many books at home but I had 5 brown library tickets and would walk a 2 mile round trip most Saturdays and picked up as many as I could from Jumble sales. So many people, life experiences and events have shaped who I am and, although not always easy, I believe we need to make the best of what we have and where we are in life and be happy.

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  12. Gosh yes, what they could have told you. Keith's mum lived to nearly 91, so we got a lot of first hand family tales from her. When I was growing up, the other houses across the road from us all had 100 foot gardens and many people kept chickens, and they planted fruit trees, soft fruit and grew veg. It was just what everyone did.

    You will laugh - I am just brown tape wrapping a heavy parcel for the Courier to collect and was thinking where is my string, so I can make sure it is secure?! Scrapbooks. Something from the past - though Sue in Suffolk still makes them.

    What genre of book do you like? I enjoy murder/mystery and historical novels best.

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  13. Thank you for posting this very interesting account of the influences that have made you who you are. I share many of these with you. The Eagle of the Ninth was one of my favourite books, I haven't read it for many, many years but am going to see if my library has a copy. I wonder if children still read stories like this? Hovel in the Hills, too and I still have my copy. I wanted a life like that.

    My grandmother was a cook in a boarding house for young ladies (and they really were quite posh young ladies) who had moved to Birmingham for jobs and education and wanted a safe, secure. place to live. Boyfriends and other male callers were allowed only in the sitting room. Such places existed in those days, but I don't think they do anymore, sadly. My mum and I often used to go and help my grandma in the kitchen so I learned my cooking skills from a young age. My mum and both my grandmothers taught me how to sew, embroider and knit, pastimes I still enjoy today.

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