For a little while yesterday, just a little while, with the sun out, it felt like spring. I wasn't out in it long as I had to drive to Tam's, and it took 2 hrs to get there as I got stuck behind a couple of slow vehicles and the road does not lend itself to overtaking in many places. I decided not to fret and just plod and enjoy the scenery around me. It had been very foggy overnight but had cleared to a beautiful sunny day when I set off after breakfast.
The hills give rough grazing to sheep and whilst you might think there it very unwelcoming countryside, you can just make out a little farmstead near the right hand side of the photo. I think the farmstead is in the trees, but this is an outbuilding and a trailer I reckon.
The birds also note the slow lengthening of the days and I noted this morning there is the start of a tentative dawn chorus, which is a real positive. I noted it today because I had to take out the corpse of a little chestnut brown Field Mouse (they have white tummies and big ears too and are seriously Cute . . .) which the girls had run to earth under my BED! I was woken by frantic carpet-scratching in the vicinity of my head beneath the bed and hanging out of said bed, could see Lulu scrabbling at an upturned box of tissues. They do stake-outs on the cupboard under the stairs where I keep the bedlinen and whatever useful boxes of Stuff I can shove in there, so I guess this mouse ventured forth. This old house has walls lined with pitch pine tongue and groove and I think they must have made their way in behind them over the years. Part of the house is also below ground level so I guess that is where they gained entry.
I spent the day at Tam's playing with Rosie (who wants to try standing without holding on now) and tackling the washing up mountain. I think I must have washed and dried just about every piece of cutlery, every pan, several big oven dishes and various plates, bowls and mugs. I could clock Jon one for never doing it (and Tam claims Rosie needs her attention . . .) She actually got several consecutive hours sleep recently and came down with some energy, but that was a one off. Rosie has been diagnosed with Eczema and has also been constipated, so neither of those conditions have helped her sleep at nights and she may wake up to 20 times. Jon has Eczema and I have the Asthma gene (which is connected to Eczema) so I really hope she doesn't go on to develop Asthma.
Untidy children - no comment;). It looks a beautiful drive to see Rosie and your daughter and one can feel the New Year is becoming lighter.
ReplyDeleteSadly Jon has ADHD and so is inclined to just do the things he wants to do (Dopamine reward). He has SO much Stuff and won't have a clear out - just gets more! Tam does what she can with Rosie strapped to her back - she was making Spag. Bol. when I left but she won't let Rosie cry for more than a minute or to and is very tired from endless night feeds (comfort feeding). So - not as she was brought up to be but right now, without J's help, she struggles. J gets overwhelmed by jobs that need doing. I can see I will have to go and mind Rosie whilst Tam helps him eventually get the garden shed up or it will stay in the hallway forever . . .
ReplyDeleteMy husband worked abroad for long periods of time when our son was a baby. I had no near relations but I joined the local NCT and made really good friends. Throughout the early years we formed a wonderful support network passing on tips and help. We met regularly with out babies - cafes didn't mind if they cried! - and we got together in our homes for bring and share lunches. Getting out an about was a nightmare initially but it was worth it!
ReplyDeleteHello Anon (perhaps you could leave an initial at the endo f your post, so I know you from other anons! The state of the house with Jon's "stuff" everywhere gets Tam down and she is too ashamed of it to ask friends round.(If only we could get the Shed up!) She goes to a walking group and there is a lass in the next village with a baby a similar age to Rosie, so at least they can swop "mum tales". They go to a couple of Mother and Toddler groups too. It's just she is challenged on the domestic front.
ReplyDeleteSounds like Jon and Tam need a dishwasher - machine - not human!
ReplyDeleteI understand the ADHD thing of not being able to cope with some things - not me but someone I know -it's difficult.
They've got one, which I got them - Marketplace - but can't persuade it to empty! I said that the U bend might be blocked, so they got the tool they needed for that, then the seal for it was ancient and broke so they ended up with a new U-bend but still no luck with the dishwasher. Jon gets easily overwhelmed, which is why I like to go and get stuck in - garden jobs etc - and he gets motivated then.
DeleteI so get this, it's great that Tam has your support x
ReplyDeleteAlison in Wales x
Sorry BB, it's me in Wiltshire (J)! I can sympathise the situation it's caused with Jon's stuff all over the place as well as Rosie's things. I'd forgotten how much small babies need themselves until I visited a friend with her grandchildren. It was a minefield negotiating the floor and when her big dog walked in and took his particular place there was little space for us to sit!
ReplyDeleteHello then J! It would help immensely if they had the shed up, but now the blardy fence has fallen down (storm) and they had to move everything it fell on - to where the shed needs to go and all the ivy etc that we cut down is still waiting to go to the Tip and . . . You're right about baby stuff - I have THREE baby car seats, varying in size - here in my Utility, a travel cot, high chair, toys, baby tent etc etc! This house used to feel quite roomy!
DeleteToddler with constipation. My health visitor at the time suggested tinned strawberries - it worked!
ReplyDeleteI'll suggest that Yellow Shoes. Tam's been getting pureed Prunes for her, which help.
ReplyDeleteIf Rosie has ezcema has Tam tried Child's Farm bath stuff. Iris suffered with it as a baby and we found that helped - not cheap but if any of us found it on offer stocked up. As you say asthma tends to go with it, and Iris has 2 inhalers which she now manages herself. Hoping she will grow out of it like her Mummy did. You deserve a reward for tackling that mountain of washing up, but that's what Mums do. Hugs Xx
ReplyDeleteI'll check it out Gill. Thanks for the tip. At the moment the Dr has prescribed a liquid paraffin additive to the bath. Hoping that helps to go on with and she will grow out of it. No sign of asthma yet but I told Tam to make sure bedding is changed every few days and the mattress vacuumed as my main allergen is house mite dust.
DeleteI don't mind washing up and felt an absolute Saint after I'd done all Tam's!!
Is it the Child's Farm OatDerma bubble bath?
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