Friday, 10 May 2019

Slowly getting there . . . and a further comment on selling

Weaver of Grass asked why we haven't sold.  The answer is, I think people coming from England have such high expectations of country living in Wales - and know absolutely NOTHING about living here.  They don't seem to know the word compromise and unless the property is absolutely perfect in every way, they aren't interested.  

Of course, because we were the farmhouse for the farm next door, this is the sticking point - all the feedback seems to be along the lines of "You can see the farm from the house" (this was the breaking point for us in the end as the agent just said this every time we'd had a viewing and yet it clearly said in the house details that the house was next door to a working farm).  Well yes, that was the idea when the farmer was living here! 

So, what we need is an extended family who want to do Air BnB with what was mum's lovely flat, and who have a couple of horses so they understand the countryside, mud, rain and probably won't panic when there's a bat or two in the house in August . . .



Our bedroom with the new carpet down and no furniture.  It is HUGE.  (About 16 feet square).


The end with furniture . . .


I had a bit of inspiration and got the Demi-lune table from a spare bedroom and put my beautiful pre-Russian Revolution cast iron mare and foal sculpture on it.  Perfick!  I LOVE the new curtains too - only £26 from Dunelm.


My "waterfall of plants" dividing the patio from the stone garden.


Aquilegias down by the entrance to what was mum's flat (the Old Dairy) and the first Welsh poppies in flower.


Clematis Montana rubens romping up the hedge and into an apple tree.  I have several of these . . .


Lots of different colour and petalled Aquilegias.


Bottom half of Cart Stable painted.  The Country Cream doesn't match the other Country Cream as it was a different make, but we didn't have the time to go round searching for the other one.  It will have to do though I may splash a bit of yellow limewash on if it really looks glaring when done.  All the pots are going Out Of Sight next week.


And here's one I did earlier . . .


The latest stray - another tom of course, who will soon be going to have his bits rearranged . . .  He will let me stroke him now whilst he's eating, so we are nearly at the shove him in a box and drive to the vet stage . . .  I call him Davy (as in Davy Crocket, as he has a tabby "hat" and a tabby tail just like the one on Davy Crocket's hat . . .)  He is of the Snowy line, and also related to Miffy who has very similar markings.



Big Fat Sam - also known as Rambo for obvious reasons! who arrived last summer and said he had Come Home and Wasn't Shifting - and indeed, he did NOT!!  He's a sweetheart.

So, progress has been made and we hope to be phoning round some estate agents next week.  Just a bit more painting outside and a LOT of tidying/housework inside . . .

30 comments:

  1. Your bedroom looks so calm and tranquil. Beautiful. I wish I could move and buy your house - it just speaks to all my romantic notions of a Welsh house. Yes, I know I am hopelessly romantic when it comes to houses.
    KJ

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    1. It feel it too KJ. I am glad you like it - just need another hopeless romantic to come and fall in love with it : )

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  2. The cart stable is absolutely adorable

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    1. Isn't it? Before we leave I am going to have a little excavation in there as I think it was the Bakehouse in late Medieval times (house goes back to 1486 in written records) as it has a window in the back. There was another building the same size to the left of it as you see it which was probably the Brewery.

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  3. Such a beautiful house and garden - I can't imagine why you are having such trouble selling it. And those Acquelegias are just perfect. Mine are nowhere near out yet.

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    1. It's because it is next to a Dairy Farm. Not ideal, but people have such unrealistic expectations of the countryside - and know NOTHING about the WELSH countryside/living in Wales/living in an old house.

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    1. Thank you hart. I try and have it looking nice all through the summer.

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  5. I LOVE your bedroom, all the antiques and the house and garden ( although the work involved would be a bit too much!) it's all looking good, right ready for going on the market and surely this time round you will be lucky.

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    1. Thank you Sue. It's getting too much for me now - rooms seem to be able to get grubby even when not used (think spiders webs and dust from nowhere!) We are hopeful that a totally different agent will bring something new to the selling business - well, we intend to have a floor plan for starters! NOT had one before, OR even a for sale sign.

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  6. It looks just fabulous - you have been working so hard and I really do hope you find a buyer. The "waterfalls" are beautiful - I love all your Granny's Bonnets :)

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    1. Thank you RR. I love it when it's Granny's Bonnets time : ) We've certainly laboured to make the house as attractive as possible, so fingers crossed.

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  7. Lovely flowers and beautiful home! Fingers are crossed that you have a fast sale. You have such creative names for your cats. Watching the show, Escape to the Country, gives us an opportunity to see homes in your country. I especially like the older houses. :)

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  8. Fingers x'd over the house sale Judy. Hah - creative names for the cats, but this last one has had a succession of names which haven't been quite right and my choice of Andy Capp was booed by family! So to avoid being known as Tom all his life, Davy Crockett he is!! I an an addict of Escape to the Country (even though I'm already there!) - I just love seeing other people's houses. It does annoy me when people look at a (to me) lovely house and say they'd have to spend a lot of money on it to make it right for them. Sounds like it ISN'T right for them . . .

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  9. Sounds like you are present and actually speak to the people viewing your house? Asking because it's not done that way in U.S. Brokers show the house and sellers are never present or communicate directly in any way with potential buyers. The brokers relay feedback and hopefully bring unrealistic expectations back to reality. I think in this respect, ours is a better system. It must be exhausting to have to deal directly with random people walking through your house that you're working so hard to ready for sale, and have to communicate with people from an urban (alien) culture.

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  10. Hi Lynn Marie - no, we have had to do our own viewings, and believe me, have met some peculiar folk in our time. This particular couple were buying with their daughter and partner and I think we were the daughter's choice, and the parents hated our house from the start and let us know it! We have had this twice now and the first lot turned up 3 HOURS EARLY (yeesh - I was busy dusting and didn't even have my bra on yet!!) and again, the parents were incredibly rude - HE eventually stomped off as he hated it here so much!

    We are going to insist on the next agents (note plural!) doing the viewings and as you say, hopefully bringing people back to reality.

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  11. Well I love your house and garden, so I shall keep my fingers crossed that this year is the one when a sale will happen. I think by the way everyone in the family will find it a great wrench to leave the house, even you!

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    1. Thanks Thelma. If we could afford to keep living here, we would. But it's TOO DARN BIG for us. We have so many memories here, and it will be a wrench to leave, I know.

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  12. BB your home is lovely and if I had the pennies I would seriously consider buying. You have worked marvels since you took it off the market last year. I think a lot of the problem is that most people don't want to put any kind of effort in. The house to my mind has so much going for it with a little bit of vision and dealing with what it has rather than what it has not and like you doing what they can for it. The house is a living breathing thing to be embraced and enjoyed. I am a country lass and a bit of mud never hurt anyone. My uncle was a dairy farmer a lone one man band back in the day. Your garden looks exquisite against the paint colour truly a vision which has come from your mind's eye. The house is waiting for that special person who will truly love it like you did and it will pick its next owners. Lets hope it is not long before that special person or persons come forward. The bedroom looks gorgeous and your quilt adds the finishing touch. I think it is magic. You have done a lovely job xx

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    1. Thankyou my dear. If you had seen this house when we took it on, you would know we have worked miracles to get it like it is now!

      I am hoping we can get things sorted out reference planning consent for changing the entrance, as that would really make a difference. The people who come here seem to be very judgemental and think, oh, a farm next door, couldn't live next to that. Well, we've been here 31 years now and it's not that bad! Let's hope that special person arrives soon.

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  13. lovely pictures and a beautiful place!! Your comments remind me of the people they show on house hunting tv shows here in the US... my goodness how did people get so rude etc. ? And why does everything have to be so perfect? And don't they read the prospectus??

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  14. Hello and welcome Bettina. Glad you like it anyway. It never fails to amaze me when people make comments about someone's home (as they do on the house-hunting programmes here too) - saying they would have to spend a lot of money changing this and that. I sometimes think they'd be better off building from scratch! I don't know where the Perfection Only comes in either - we have always had to compromise. Don't think they can have read the prospectus, if the farm comes as a shock . . .

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  15. Oh aren't people just the worst sometimes? Your bedroom is beautiful and grand. The photos of the garden are gorgeous especially the Aquilegias. I love the cart stable, too. Can I ask you about 1940's curtains. I've earmarked some I've seen in the internet, I don't suppose you have any in stock do you? I have to have a curtain to cover a regular sized window in a door and then a window which is about 46 inches across. I do hope you find a buyer soon.x

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  16. Hi Louise, glad you like it and yes, some people are the pits! I don't have any 1940s fabric or curtains, only some Belgian 1930s style plush oddments which would do for cushions. Happy to let you have those. I'll try and send you a photo of the fabric (when I find it as we had a "chuck in" of fabrics etc to my sewing room which then had bedroom furniture put in front of it so it got shoved even further back!

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  17. That is very kind of you, BB.x I've had a look on Ebay and Etsy, too, and found a couple of things that might work.

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  18. Beautiful. I can't believe you haven't had it snspped up, all these years you've been trying :( fingers crossed this time it sells xxx

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  19. CW - if it was anywhere BUT Wales it would sell quickly, but we can't move it, so we are stuck.

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  20. It's Gorgeous and the stuff of Calendar Images... how Rude of those viewing it to be so lacking of manners and couth! My Mum was from North Wales and it is indeed Beautiful, Green and so Charming! I live in the Desert Southwest of the U.S., very different landscape and tho' Beautiful in a different kind of way, no Charm in the Housing Market at all! Europeans tend to appreciate their History more and I Love that... Wish more Historic Homes had been preserved here... alas, most were not.

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  21. Nice to meet you Bohemian. I thought those last viewers were the Utter End - so incredibly rude. You certainly live in a very different landscape - not so much green, I am sure! Our house has an amazing history - makes me wish we could step back in time to experience it.

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