Friday 4 August 2023

Phews all round . . .

 I managed to lock myself out of the blog yesterday. When I logged in last night, I couldn't post as there was a different gmail address at the top.  How did I manage that?  I vaguely remember having to alter something google-wise but I clearly hadn't been paying attention at the time.  I get this some days - did I take my inhalers? Antihistamine? Where have I left the car keys?  My glasses?  I am not always mindful - that only seems to happen when I am gardening!  Anyway, I opened my passwords book at the front page this morning and the details I needed were on a piece of paper, in Gabby's handwriting, so I could get in again.  Phew.



    Anyway, the morning was a good one, of nice little things arriving.  My Homes & Antiques magazine was in down at the Newspaper shop I go to and I had a lovely garden chat with one of the ladies who works there. Later in the morning the book I had bought (after seeing it on a friend's blog - you know who you are, D!) also arrived.  

    Sorry that the photo isn't clear - I think I had the camera on a scene setting! My brain truly wasn't in residence yesterday :)  Anyway, it's a WWII diary to take me back in time.   Do you have this one Sue in Suffolk?

    I was in a baking mood too, and also had a 70s song (Marvin Gaye - Abraham, Martin and John) going through my head, so I put my play list on in the background and had a 60s/70s singalong.  I saw (somewhere! not being mindful again) a recipe for Apple Parkin recently, but couldn't for the life of me remember if it was in one of my many cookbooks or on line.  Anyway, I googled the recipe and found one to try.  I shan't bother with it again - or if I do I will double the quantity as it came out very flat.  I think I will use my usual parkin recipe  and just adapt it.


    The grated orange peel came out in dollops - I had washed and scrubbed the orange to remove any spray. The teaspoon of cinnamon should have gone through a sieve too as that also came out lumpy.  Sigh.

     


    The Apple Gingerbread is a recipe I could make in my sleep and that was fine, as ever.

    


    I have finally made a start on this x-stitch kit which was a Christmas present.  I wanted something straightforward to sew. I have laid aside (yet again) the Devon Village x-stitch, so nearly finished, but going x-eyed trying to work out the backstitching on it.  I think I will get a red pen and mark it on the chart that way.  Easier then to check where I am with it.


    As you can see, it's early days yet. I need to get in touch with Emma Louise as it would appear that I have two different numbered colours which are exactly the same . . .

    I've been watching the racing from Goodwood, to keep Keith company.  He had a bad day energy-wise yesterday, and was struggling to get about.  The previous day he had been so much better.  He has agreed to use the Tens machine daily and see if that helps his neck/back but the main problem with it is that the instructions say you can't use it on the neck . . .


    Ghengis didn't eat his tea yesterday. That is most unusual for him as he normally eats his and then hoovers up any leftovers in other bowls.  Then last night when I sat down (to RELAX), I noticed that he had a dropped mouth and his left eye was almost closed.  For a horrid moment I thought he may have had a stroke. If that was the case, it was going to be an out-of-hours visit to the surgery for euthenasia. He's a very old cat, and there will be no heroics. I very gently touched his chin which on closer inspection looked swollen, and he recoiled, and it occurred to me that was why he hadn't eaten much of his meal earlier.  Then he got up and walked across to the rocking chair and jumped up and so I surmised bite or sting, not stroke. He's better this morning, phew again.

    Pippi's hunting is getting better - though I was horrified to see her stalking a hen Pheasant twice her size earlier in the week!  Fortunately it made a heck of a squawk when she did her final run and grab and flew off.  I have to say, she's a brave wee thing.  Anyway, yesterday she came in with a pygmy shrew - still very much alive, as I discovered when she dropped it and it scooted behind the shoe rack.  Then Lulu managed to find it and, growling, shot off across the kitchen and into the library, where she dropped it. . .  There was a determined game of hide and seek under and over Tam's Laura Ashley armchair, which is draped with a voluminous sheet to stop kittens stropping it.  The shrew had obviously made a beeline for it and hidden in the folds of a sheet, but those two kittens were everywhere outside and beneath the sheet!  They lost it.  Fortunately as they were elsewhere and I was doing my x-stitch it strolled past me towards the French windows.  I leapt into action and quickly opened said windows, but it couldn't manage the step, so I had to scoop it up and give it its freedom. Those kittens must have retriever mouths as it was just a bit damp from kitten-spit - not a mark on it.  Phew again - there is already a niff of decomposing lost shrew in the hall where one caught earlier obviously went behind the food cupboard and snuffed it. . . I didn't want the same in the library.

    After the racing, I finally got out in the garden and decided that, whilst wild ferns are nice, they have to be in the right place, and the thicket of them in the centre of the bank needed a different look.  I had a moment of inspiration and decided something colourful needed to focus the eye there, and my new Buddleia "Buzz Velvet" will be it.  I have begun clearing but by golly, a lot of digging over (and then mulching) is going to be necessary. There is some ancient membrane there but it's been down so long that all the grass and weeds have grown through/over it.  Great fun trying to rip that up.  I cleared an area where I have other yellow late-summer daisies and bunged in the Rudbeckia laciniata "Goldquelle" which had been languishing in a pot for far too long.  As long as I don't buy any more, I have just 5 to find homes for - and I know where the Buddleia's going.

    I am glad I can enjoy music again.  Last year, with the stress of Keith's health problems, I just couldn't want it.  Nor did I turn Radio 4 on in the background all day long. I hardly baked anything.  The bread-maker was about as far as I got with being creative in the kitchen.  I couldn't cope with the heat and the garden, so that got abandoned too.  Perhaps I am accepting the "new normal".

    Have a lovely Friday and weekend all.




22 comments:

  1. That is a lovely hollyhock photo on your header.
    Being a carer scrambles life at times

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    1. No rust on their hollyhocks! Being a carer can be very demanding.

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  2. Passwords, pins, passcodes. Oh, they're all getting on my nerves. And withParkinson's, they become more and more difficult to. manage. I dread locking myself out of an account for whatever reason as I usually end up having to replace passwords across several accounts that are used as backup. Then it's passcodes for this passcodes for that on top of pins and passwords. And the companies say they help disabled people with easy management, but they don't.

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    1. I resent having to have a password or a pin just to get INTO my computer. I don't share it with anyone else and just want to use it, for heaven's sake. I have a whole note boom full of passwords!

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  3. Phew indeed! This was a good post to read with my morning cuppa. I know what you mean about music. Being able to listen and sing to music is a good indicator of where my mind is too. Like you I am enjoying this wet and cool summer much more than last year’s relentless heat and drought. I think most gardeners would say the same. But I am restless on the making front as I keep starting and unpicking canvas work embroidery. I was given a pillowcase of leftover tapestry wool during the Covid years - some hanks and skeins but mostly odds and ends and I am doing my best to use them up. I have made inroads as I have completed two complete cushion fronts using charted designs from my Elizabeth Bradley book and made cushion inners with sheep’s wool and backed them with fabric from the charity shop so I have used up all my favourite colours and now I think these false starts are telling me it is time to let the remainder go. My cross stitch on 28 count linen days are definitely behind me. Back in the day I loved to get up early in the summer months and stitch quietly at my sewing table before the house awoke. We had a terrible night last night. S was very restless which happens from time to time. I know it is PD related and I often think S is maybe 10 years behind K with this awful disease. We’re going to have a quiet day today. Nothing is calling me in the garden apart from the ripening blackberries growing around the perimeter of the meadow so if I do manage to make one jar of jelly and a batch of scones for afternoon tea that will be a result. Unusually I am not a work today so I may pull out the spinning wheel and start spinning the Romney marsh merino carded fleece I bought from the farm during our holiday near Rye earlier this year. Oh, I have just remembered that good friends of my son are getting married at the iconic old church on Romney Marsh in September and T asked me ages ago if I would knit them both hats using Romney Marsh wool as a present. Hand spun and hand knitted with local fleece, what could be nicer, I better get a wriggle on! Btw T was camping and trekking on Dartmoor last weekend. Like his mum he is very wholesome while our 9 April-born daughter has recently escaped the crowded and overheated South and is now living and working in Scotland - I’m hoping this fresh start will do her the world of good. Wishing you a good Friday and weekend too BB. Sarah x

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    1. Well yesterday got a LOT worse, as the cold water would only run outside the house (garden tap) and declined to push itself uphill into the holding tank . . . V. slightly better today.

      Craft-wise - you've done well with the gifted skeins of wool - perhaps it is time to pass them on to someone else to do similar. The x-stitch I'm doing nowis 14 count Aida, so easy peasy - Iagree with you about the 28 count linen though. I did - MANY years ago, when the kids were very much "smalls" - an American chart called the Quilting. Looking at it, I'd say it was 28 count Aida. In the days before a craft light or reading specs too!

      Sorry that S was so restless. Keith's Parkinsonism is MSA, which progresses more rapidly. I still think it wasn't helped by 14 mths on high dose steroids. It affects his breathing at night in that he snores loudly, one of the symptoms. Hence I have my own bedroom now - the formerly hot pink one, now tastefully pale yellow on the tongue and groove, and the lovely yellow Almond Blossom wallpaper which reminds me of dad's painting of Van Gogh's original. I am going to get Tam to help me hang some of my favourite prints in there this weekend. I hate bare walls.

      Enjoy spinning and knitting your Romney Marsh merino fleece rollags. Just the words Romney Marsh remind me of the Monica Edwards books which were set there. Oh happy days when life was encompassed with words and dreams of my own pony one day.

      Glad that T enjoyed being down on Dartmoor - we used to wild camp too, and catch small trout in the West Dart. My goodness, from river to plate in about 10 minutes, cooked over a wee fire. I never touched farmed trout ever again after eating those - the flesh was so sweet and good.

      Glad that 9-April-born daughter is enjoying Scotland. My it do her the power of good.

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  4. Yes I've got "Few Eggs..........." My copy is a very old hardback as I had it long before Persephone reprinted. It's a book I would rescue from my shelves if I had to leave the house with only one bag of books!
    Good luck with that cross stitch - I wouldn't have the patience for that anymore.

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    1. I knew you must have it. I've just read a few pages so far but I know I will enjoy it. Glad it is good enough to be rescued if you had just to pack just one bag with books.

      This x-stitch is very simple and straightforward. It's the Devon village giving me palpitations!

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  5. That Apple Gingerbread looks delicious. I'm glad to hear that Ghengis is okay, that must have been such a nasty shock. Sue in Suffolk might have that book if she had two copies of it, but she sent that particular version to me a couple of years ago, it's a good read.

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    1. It was a worry about Ghengis. When Tam arrives I'm going to worm/de-flea them all. Though Ghengis, being ancient, and frail, will just get the wormer. I have found that the flea treatment and old cats often makes them quite poorly as toxins that kill fleas aren't good for cats either. I would NEVER use a flea treatment every month as some folk do.

      Glad the book has another fan.

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  6. Glad you found your passwords, must admit I have jotted mine down on one sheet of paper, my green journal has pages of password changed and otherwise. Saw about your water problem this morning, a nuisance when you have visitors coming. Is your water a natural source, and do you share with others?

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    1. Yes - it's a natural spring which is shared. I know that the "holding tank" such as it is, must have a very heavy residue of mud and silt in (proven by the state of our filters!) Raining steadily here today so I hope the tank is soon topped up. At least we have cold water downstairs today.

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  7. Have you listened to Boom Radio? I'm 70 and its definitely my era of music. I also listen a lot to Radio 4 Extra, some fabulous dramas and comedies on that. OH is laying down some more lawn as I can't cope with a lot of weeding these day, arthritis in my hands and feet, and I find it easier to mow. We have had a lovely day weather wise in the Midlands but are forecast huge amounts of rain tomorrow, which help the new lawn bed in. Gill Xx

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    1. Thanks for that Gill. Just tested it out and it does indeed sound our sort of music. Just this second checking out Radio 4 extra - BRILLIANT. Love Whodunnits, and have just put on a Sherlock Holmes - the Abergavenny Murder. Well, I HAD to didn't I?! Thankyou so much - just the thing for a miserable wet morning.

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  8. Passwords and user names, ugh! I've been locked out of my etsy shop for over a year. Etsy can't seem to fix iit.

    Those kitties! You have a lot going on w them. Could Ghengis's issue be a bad tooth?

    I love your needlework project!

    lizzy

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    1. Oh no. Will Etsy allow you to set up a new shop with a slightly different name? Ghengis' problem definitely NOT a tooth issue as he doesn't have any left! I think it's worms as he has a terrific appetite.

      I will post a progress report on the new x-stitch soon.

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  9. Phew is right! You really stuffed a lot into your post. I shouldn't say it, but I get quite a charge out of those kitten hijinks! Glad Genghis is okay.

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    1. A lot DID happen! Those kittens bring us such pleasure, and I am glad they are doing the same for you too. The older cats are happy just to sit in the sun, hunt baby rabbits, and sleep. The "babies" are full of beans and if not hurtling round, they are killing bathroom mats and towels (Lulu) or escaping (Pippi).

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  10. Oh my, what hunters those kitties are. I think at one time our cat had brought in a mouse (shrews were left on the steps as a gift) and I started to smell a rotten cabbage like smell. I decided it was time to get Shania's toys out from under our sofa and pulled out a desiccated mouse. I was not very happy.

    God bless.

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    1. The one they caught last week (shrew) turned up yesterday - very FLAT - but perfect for batting around the kitchen. Urgh- dessicated mouse not good!

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  11. I'm always concerned when you go a day without posting. From time to time we all deal with this password glitch--as if 'something' has been at the PC when we weren't looking.
    those not quite so little 'kittens' are keeping you busy! I'm remembering a hilarious incident in Wyoming when a mouse got in through the garage door--it was that old duffer Charlie-cat who finally snatched it up--and immediately ran under a bed and let it go again.
    I can see that from one day to the next you've no idea how well [or not] Keith will be able to function. So very difficult for both of you.
    I am envious of your hollyhocks--they don't like our humid weather.

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    1. Sometimes life gets in the way. Sometimes I find it difficult to string a sentence together, if I'm a bit down with caring worries. Sometimes I get totally immersed in family history (that is guilty quite a bit in recent weeks). Then I found myself going down rabbit holes which were totally irrelevant so have given myself a couple of days off.

      Keith's health is very up and down, and it's very tiring when he's having a particularly bad day.

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