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Saturday, 31 August 2024
Why We Moved to Wales Part IV
Why we moved to Wales III
Friday, 30 August 2024
Why we moved to Wales II - updated with photo of house, barns and yard.
Our wild river valley in Autumn. This is the view we had as we dropped down the little hill that first time.
We travelled up to the Lake District too, and viewed a lovely old house in a little hamlet just above Ullswater. There were only 3 or 4 houses there, and they were all cheek-by-jowl. There was no land, and the garden was small and bisected by a footpath, but it had a lot of character and we liked it well enough to offer on it. There was a "sealed bid" situation and we missed it by £10,000 . . . Another, near Appleby, was in truly beautiful spot, with views across to the Fells, and a big barn, but it had been modernized beyond belief. The vendors actually apologized for the one tiny bit of wood left in a wall beneath a window, saying that it was supporting the wall and they couldn't remove it!
We looked all along the Welsh marches too, booking several viewings in a day on our way from Dorset to see Granny C up in Manchester. One half-timbered cottage just outside Ludlow looked lovely on paper. We arrived there very late as we had underestimated the time it took to view and travel onwards in unknown territory. It was TINY. I think the agent must have written down the room sizes from memory as no way would we have gone to look if we'd known you couldn't even FIT a cat in a room, let alone swing one! The garden was long and thin and overlooked by half a dozen other properties, so no privacy whatsoever.
Another I can actually remember the name of - it was the Bell House, Wooferton. It had a lot of charm, but the land was very over-used from ponies and other livestock. I think we did well to discard it, as looking at the map, it is very close to the A49.
So, we returned back to Dorset despondent. There was nothing which really ticked the boxes in Devon - well, not in our price range anyway. There were a few properties in Wales we liked the look of - especially the one in Carmarthenshire. We made a few phone calls and set off one September day to Wales to view . . .
The first house was a bit too close to the Welsh Valleys for us. It was by Llanhilleth, near Pontypool - and below Ebbw Vale. I didn't know it at the time, but it was close to where my maternal grandfather had been a coal miner before the First World War. His half-brother ("Uncle Will" to my mum) - his widowed mother had remarried - had moved to Aberbargoed and was a miner, with a wife and two daughters.
With the bridge across the Severn at our backs, we drove even deeper into Wales, excited at the prospect of the house which had leapt off the page at us, and the prospect of viewing a Welsh long house afterwards. We had a gut feeling about the first property. The directions were quite accurate, apart from the distance from the main road to the turning we needed. We dropped down a little hill and the magic of the river valley took our breath away. Even though it was raining, the view on the bend looking up the river valley was stunning. We drove on, past a little mill on the river bank, then across a narrow iron bridge which looked like the Army had built it during the war and never come back from it. We followed the lane up a steep zig-zag hill and there it was, gleaming white despite the rain as it had just been newly-whitewashed to impress buyers (hum - that was a waste of time!) and with the paintwork in a chocolate brown which had also been used down at the Mill. There must have been a job lot doing the rounds . . . We never bothered with going on to view the Welsh longhouse - we had found our dream home."
Thursday, 29 August 2024
Why we moved to Wales, revisited
This is a post from April 2018, when I had my small business and Keith and I were happily selling in Hay, set up as windbreaks in the old Butter Market.
To set the scene, back in 1987, Keith and I were living in Dorset. Sadly, the house was on a very busy main road (the A350) and we wanted to get away from that and get an old farmhouse to do up, or at any rate, somewhere quieter deeper in the West Country. We had bought - for just £1! - a big old mirror at Cottees' auctions in Wareham, and could just see that up on the wall in this old dream house . . .
"Last weekend we were back in Hay-on-Wye, selling our wares, and a lovely old lady came in and was asking K if she could hold one of his muskets as she wanted to see how heavy it was. She had a lively and enquiring mind, and we fell into conversation. Her name was Jenny Green, and she began to tell me how she and her family had come to live in Wales. She was a real kindred spirit and we got on like a house on fire and chatted non-stop for about half an hour. It transpires she had written a book about her experiences and to cut a long story short, a little while later she came back with a copy which I promptly bought from her and read non-stop with great delight. I can't recommend it enough.
With the exception of keeping goats, her life has been VERY similar to mine, and when she was wine-making, bread-making, jam-making, foraging, hand-sewing patchwork quilts and growing food, I was right there beside her. In the early days, frugality and self-reliance also loomed large (fortunately for Jenny, her husband Gordon was a great one for his practical inventions - I could do with borrowing the Gordon Green Patent Roof Tile Replacer right now in fact!! If you can find this book (there are a couple on Amazon and Ebay), I know you will greatly enjoy reading her story. I look forward to meeting her again and she knows when we are next likely to be in Hay.
Of course, this has taken me back down Memory Lane 30 years and more, and I have found a few posts from 2012, where I wrote about us moving to Wales. Revisiting them won't go amiss.
WHY WE MOVED TO WALES . . .
As I was reading my long-desired book "The Unsought Farm" by Monica Edwards, it occurred to me that she had much to do with us ending up here in Wales. Her books, house prices going MAD back in 1988 when we finally sold our house in Dorset, and a chance holiday in Carmarthenshire with a penpal back in the early 1970s.
As a child, I had pretty well all of Monica Edwards' childrens' novels, both the Westling ones and the Punchbowl Farm series. I absolutely adored the Punchbowl Farm books, and wanted to be the heroine, Lindsey. I wanted to live in an old farmhouse with a double bridle hanging from one of the kitchen beams, and the soft light of oil lamps, and Jersey cows to milk, and have the footings of an old wing of the farmhouse where I could open a long-forgotten door and step straight back through time to the 17th Century. I wanted Siamese cats, and ponies in Barn Field, and a yew tree to play my recorder in. As you will probably realize, living in a house on a bus route in suburban Southampton (for all the wild land down the back) didn't quite fit the bill. It was too late though - I was programmed for life. Hardwired to country living and historic houses, sloping floors and crooked doorways, still rooms and cellars. To baking my own cakes and making my own bread. I am still a dreamer . . . but I have LIVED the dream.
The holiday with the penpal really opened my eyes to what living in the country proper could be like. She had a sweetheart of a donkey, and a pet sheep called Primrose who had arrived as a lamb to be bottle-fed and stayed forever. We walked on the marshes beside the estuary, visited the ruins of the once-grand house that was now just soaring brick walls and blind windows, with pigeons nesting where bedroom fireplaces had once been, and a smell of decay. I remember looking across the estuary through their telescope and watching the Welsh world go by so slowly, ponies at the riding stables across the river being caught up for work, and cows meandering across pastures to be milked. I recall seeing stars in an inky sky unsullied by neon lights. No sound of traffic, only the occasional moo of a cow or the hoot of an owl. Sheepdogs that ran out to attack the tyres of the car as we drove past. Verges that were a mass of wild flowers I had only seen as occasional specimens, not by the 100 yard length. The nearest town (Carmarthen) had a market, and no big shops at all, and I was amazed to find that the juke box in the pub we went in had records of HYMNS!! Being a 20 year old townee, this was really quite a shock! This really WAS the back of beyond!
When my husband and I decided to move away from the busy main road we lived on in Dorset, our intention was to stay in the West Country, and we house-hunted in Devon and the Cornish borders for an old place with a bit of land, "to do up". So did the world and his wife!
We found and fell in love with a small cottage near Beaworthy. Whilst not the "farmhouse", it was everything I had ever dreamed of - a long driveway planted with Snowdrops and Daffodils, a pretty garden bordered by a stream; a little barn; a greenhouse; an outbuilding just perfect for Keith's woodworking; an acre and a half and buzzards wheeling overhead. We had a buyer. We had our offer accepted on the cottage. We lost our buyer. And another. The lady with the cottage HAD to sell. I broke my heart over that little house. I kept the details - and the photos taken the weekend we stayed there to cat-sit for the owner whilst she went up to her brother's. I found them recently, and there was still the pang of loss, although looking back now, it WAS small and we would have had to extend or move on once T had her sister and brother.
Anyway, glumly, without a buyer, we watched house prices rise by the week in the West Country until the sort of property we were looking for was becoming beyond our range, as our house price had stayed the same. We searched further afield, in the Welsh Marches, Lancashire and what used to be Westmoreland. "Wales is lovely," I told my husband. He agreed to include this in our remit, and we sent off for various house details. One enterprising estate agent in Carmarthen sent a printed brochure of all the properties on its books - and there were SO many. Then it happened. We turned a page and a photo of an old shabby white farmhouse literally LEAPT off the page at us. It had land - 5 1/2 acres - and outbuildings. The rooms sounded HUGE. It had potential (a term we were to hear regularly mentioned down the years). We contacted the estate agent one September day and arranged to go and view it . . ."
Wednesday, 28 August 2024
Family time - and ancient photos of moi
I shall be quiet for a couple of days (unless, of course, I am wide awake in the middle of the night again . . .) as Danny's here, and Tam and Rosie. Danny's working from home, but came for moral support as Tam brought Keith's ashes back with her today. I fully expected to be totally in pieces but no, I am glad he is home, and there has been a little Gallows type humour. I dare say the grief will hit me later, but today I have them here, in a beautiful wicker basket, and am fine. Gabs phoned me from Greece to see if I was OK. She said it's REALLY hot there - 32 deg C or so - about 90 deg F. TOO hot for me.
The lovely grey pony had been a stallion till he was about 8. He was a Norfolk Trotter - a really rare breed. Anyway, he ended up gelded, as a super riding pony. I remember he had the softest coat I have ever felt on any horse. We were having a talk on conformation here and I was talking about heart room and him being deep through the girth.I remember temps that high back in 1976, and again in another couple of not recent summers. Pony Club Camp one year had temps like that and I had to instruct wearing rubber riding boots and start the day with my jacket on too, for Inspection. We were staying in the accommodation block which the grooms used (it was Salisbury Racecourse) and there were bedbugs and my legs were bitten to pieces and I was going mad with itching when the boots went on. There was no hot water, and I was having 3 cold showers a day. It would have been 1980 or 1981 I think, when I was working for Price Waterhouse and spent my summer holiday at PC Camp. Happy times. There's an article featuring me in their in-house magazine - I still have a copy each for the kids upstairs. I look very young and very slim . . . about 8 1/2 stone I think.
Looking in an antique shop window in Fisherton Street, Salisbury. I remember I used to collect little sifter spoons (50p a time they were then) and micromosaic pieces - small brooches mainly, which didn't cost much more.
Gosh, that's been a real trip down Memory Lane. A couple of years later, I met Keith . . . and that's another story. Have I told you about the £1 mirror?
Tuesday, 27 August 2024
The Bloody Ploughman . . . and something for the Stash . . .
. . . apple that is, an heirloom variety from Scotland. At Malvern Flea yesterday, a charity was selling organic plums, Bloody Ploughman and James Grieve apples from her orchard yesterday. She planted a heritage orchard many years ago when there was funding available to establish it. £1 a bag (4 big apples) and £2 for a punnet of plums. I got two lots of James Grieve, one lot of Bloody Ploughman and some plums. YUM.
Not for me . . . and I have to say an awful lot of the stalls (99% of them in fact) also weren't for me yesterday. Plenty of stalls, but it wasn't as big as it usually is. Not as car bootish as it's been though.
I had a lovely chat with the guy that brings these over from Turkey. I have several pieces of his already though.
I bet the one using woollen? coat remnants was heavy on a bed. A modern version I think, of what women used in the past to make up a warm winter quilt as this one is cut very regularly, not using such scraps as were available.
The light wasn't very good - the little owl on the left had a nice look, as did the lion? on the right. I didn't ask the price as they had Nice Stuff so I knew there wouldn't be dealer prices in my range! I did ask the price on a couple of other stalls as I could hear Keith's voice saying, if you don't ask, you won't know! I think he was there with me yesterday. One stall had books and militaria which would have really interested him, and I approached thinking, oh, I'll get that book for Keith, before the realisation hit home . . .
Isn't this fun? He had £60 on it and would have done a deal, but I would have needed to have found this before he did to make it profitable. I wish I'd had something like this as a child, but if it didn't come out of mum's Morse's Catalogue, I didn't get it!
See what I mean in "not much for me this time" . . .A steam punk chest of drawers isn't really my scene. The stuff in the background too - also not for me.
I pounced on these too! I am thinking Rosie-Posy quilt of course! Some really beautiful fabric scraps. The lady selling them had sadly lost her sister to early-onset Alzheimers and made things to sell to support the Charity. These were offcuts.
Saturday, 24 August 2024
Knee-high Dandelions!
I drove to Aber yesterday, firstly to meet up with Ruta, who lives there and had bought one of the Smoker's Bows from me and then to meet up with Tam. I had a lovely chat with Ruta, and am about to add her blog to my Blog-list.
When Tam, Rosie & Jon arrived we went to Crown (no B&Q in Aber) to get my lovely green paint. We found that their Crystal Mint was a very close match. Their prices though! Just as well they gave a hefty discount as paying the full £60 for it would have really hurt. As it was, £42 for 2.5 L was bad enough. Ouch!
Then we went to Tam's allotment. It is just half a plot, and very overgrown - several people took a look and turned it down, so Tam got offered it. She reckoned they weren't proper gardeners if a few weeds put them off it! She had cleared some, but obviously Keith's illness and having baby Rosie making a fuss each time they went there was a big spanner in the works and she was so disheartened to find the area she'd cleared had come back with knee-high Dandelions. There were also BUSHES of Figwort (Scrophularia nodosa). I have it here, on discrete and almost gracile stems. I generally let it flower as the bees love it. On Tam's plot though it was as tall as us, and about as big round. Not sure if there is a domesticated variety but by gum, this liked where it was growing! Even the side stems were as thick as my thumb. Apparently it has medicinal uses, in reducing inflammation, fighting infection and helping wounds heal. It was once used for treating Hemorrhoids.
Lots of gone-over Willowherb too, but not much grass, which was good (here, I have grass and wild raspberries). One more session should finish the clearing and I am happy to help again. There is a sitting area, and a bench at the back, and a polytunnel which needs a new plastic cover, but all in all they have a good little plot as the soil is wonderful. You may have seen Monty Don thrusting a fork or a spade into his soil and it damn near disappears (oh how envious I am of soil like that - my fork goes in and hits rubble from the demolished mansion). Well, the soil at Tam's allotment is like that and has obviously been given LOTS of FYM and TLC down the years. She's got a good one.
Jon's mum came along too, and held Rosie, who was as good as gold, having slept practically through the night before, and we all had a picnic after, sitting in the area by the polytunnel, and munching broken biscuits, chocolate and Jelly Babies. That hit the spot. I picked up a handful of windfall apples too, so will cook those up today and bake a cake to take for friends tomorrow.
I drove home through the mountains in wonderful sunshine, really pleased I had been able to help Tam and make a difference. Today I shall be in my own garden. Ed bought me up some more stable manure and I can carry on clearing the soft fruit area on the bank. I think I have lost the baby Japanese Wineberries, but no huge loss there. I will probably transplant the 3 Rhubarb plants to the bottom triangle, where there is a good depth of soil from rotted leaves from the beech trees.
I need to clear the rest of the overgrown bits in the garden too, the annual autumn tidy up but that will take me through September.
Well, this won't do. Onwards and upwards.
Thursday, 22 August 2024
A Stormy Old Night
4.25a.m. and I came downstairs after waking at 3 a.m. and couldn't get back to sleep. My fault for being tired out at 9 o'clock again. I can hear the wind thrashing the trees around and two wet boy-cats were very glad that I did come down, so they could come back indoors. Autumn has arrived early it would seem.
The other part of our Dunelm order arrived yesterday. Tam had cot sheets, a pretty speckledy green plate and a useful container for baby bitsandbobs. I had my wallpaper. This is it. We love it. Tam found it and knew the colour I was planning for the walls in there. It is a sunny bright south-facing room (guest bedroom) and I like cheerful colours. Stuff the Magnolia . . .
This was the progress the other day. As you can see, it's going to be a long old job.
I have yet to tackle . . . SO many wild raspberries in there which will have to come out.
It's the Truck Fest down on the showground this weekend. Here's a photo I took from the orchard, showing folk getting set up with their weekend accommodation down there. Not my scene, I have to say.
You will be glad to hear that I rested yesterday. I went out for groceries in the morning, as the fridge was looking very bare and I needed some Treats as well. I also did some family history on Keith's Manchester roots, whilst I still have Ancestry. My membership ends 6th September. I found some more Non-Conformists (no great surprise) - Primitive Methodists again. Some of his Yorkshire folk were PMs too. I think that mindset was passed on to Keith as I can truly say he was non-conformist with the way he lived his life and good for him say I. My lot seem to have been biddable Anglicans . . .
Audible keep giving me unbeatable offers (half price for 3 or 4 months), but I have enough books to go on with for the moment so have resisted that.
After lunch I had a nap on the sofa - fell straight into a deep sleep for 3/4 hour, and then watched racing and did a little x-stitch on the Clover Fairy, now that I have bound the edges of the Aida fabric in blanket stitch. I managed half of Vera before I had to go to bed. Now I am paying the price for going up so early.
Well, will I get to sleep now? We shall see . . .