Saturday, 30 November 2024

A Romantic Dingle . . .

 


Sorry about the flash.  I bought this stunning framed print from Sam Cannon Art (www.samcannonart.co.uk) this week.  I look on it as Keith's Christmas present to me, as the money from his old current account was paid into my account recently. The words are "If I had my life to live over again, I would find you sooner so that I could love you longer" and that pretty much sums up how I have been feeling since his death - I've been saying similar words in my head.  He was 11 years older than me and HOW I wish I had not wasted 13 years on my first husband, who was a total waste of rations, and met Keith sooner.  It was not to be, but I am just very grateful for the half a lifetime we did have together.  Sam Cannon is the most exquisite artist.  Please go to her website and have a look - I would love EVERYTHING she has painted as they are all so good and so beautiful.  Her parcel was the most beautifully wrapped one I have ever received in my life, and she included a printed card of my choosing.  I chose one with dragonflies and Foxgloves. . . . and there I am in pieces again.

I took myself off to Llandod quite early yesterday, and posted a parcel off to my friend G in Dorset, then got a couple of bits from Lidl and suddenly realized it was Friday, and that Powys Archives would be open.  It took me a while to find it, but I spent a very happy hour or so in there, looking at old estate maps and the Estate Book for the Big House, to try and find out more about this place and where on earth the old mansion house was.  Well, a failure on the latter, but have now worked out that the debris under the bank here was another older stable block and that it was the coachman who lived here (over the stables/coach house which was this ground floor).  The gardeners lived in the two little semi-detached cottages below us.


The wooded slope to the right is our land down as far as a path which led up to the big house (the new mansion). The ivied area by the telegraph pole was once a stone outbuilding housing the generator for the Big House. This was described in the Estate Book (all in beautiful copperplate handwriting) dated 1900, as part of the Pleasure Grounds, which were apparently quite high maintenance as they comprised an acre of cultivated garden and vegetable plot, orchards, a rustic summerhouse plus tennis courts, and terraced walks and pathways to "a romantic dingle intersected by a winding trout stream," !  That is now just the trackway up to the next farm.



The Estate book was very thorough and mentioned that the farmsteads and buildings which comprised the estate were very dilapidated - in some cases, totally beyond help - and the farmer and his wife in the farmhouse up this trackway had to sleep beneath umbrellas to keep dry!!!  It surmised that about £1,000 would be needed to effect repairs and improvements.  That would be £154,000 in today's value (although of course prices for building work would have gone up by a huge amount in recent years.)

The wooded areas of the estate (quite considerable) had been fenced for a rabbit warren, although Mr Ralli, tenant of the mansion, said that rabbits had not been thriving for the past 3 years as the soil had become "stale".

Our little plot was described thus: "There is stabling for 12 horses, together with two coach houses, saddle room with coachman's rooms over.  There is also a spacious cottage in the occupation of the gardener."


I slept very badly again last night and was awake and down for 3 hrs again.  That meant sleeping two hours on the sofa today and I am sick of it.  I have also been feeling sick all day today too, especially after having a sliced Edam sandwich at lunchtime.  I have just forced a hot meal down (cauliflower and a boughten steak pie) - last night all I could face was a tin of soup.


Here is the tote bag I've been carefully embroidering.  I am now on the flowers to the right, which I am using a deep pink/puce colour with white French knots and stem stitch.  Very pretty.  I'm about to go and do some more, whilst watching Outlander.


Here's one I bought from the same stand at Malvern Quilt Show a couple of years ago. I use it for hanks of wool (from Wonderwool, STILL waiting for me to Do Something With Them).

It's Tam's birthday today.  I've just phoned her but Rosie was wailing in her car seat - they're heading back from Machynlleth.  Gosh, the years have flown by.

Right, the washing up is summoning me.  Have a good weekend all.


16 comments:

  1. Happy Birthday Tam, not 21 I assume! I was so pleased to read that you had found your happy ever after with Keith, a shame you didn't meet sooner but your life is planned out for you I believe. I've had a very happy 50 years with OH, ups and downs of course but I wouldn't be without him. He is the sensible financial head and I'm the oh go on lets just do it. Also we got our lovely daughter and granddaughter. Families matter. Hope you feel better soon. Hugs Xx

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    1. Indeed no, 21 and a bit!! I think had I not met my first husband and split up with him when I did, if my dad hadn't died when he did, then I probably wouldn't have moved to Dorset and met Keith, so it was meant to be . . . You have done well clocking up 50 years and all marriages have their ups and downs but life without your partner is hard. Keith too had the sensible financial head (which it would appear finally rubbed off on me!) and I have always been the one to leap in where angels fear to tread :)

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  2. Sam Cannnon is a local lady. I’ve a couple of her prints that Nick and the girls have bought me over the years. They are gorgeous aren’t they. I’ve actually sent the card of your print to Nick, I feel the same as you and wish I’d met him first but there we go we have to go through what life deals us or we don’t learn to appreciate the good ones and the good bits x I’d love to go to the local history centre in town, I just need some free time, I’d be happily in there hours I think! I know so little about here as N’s lot refuse to talk about it! Hope your sick feeling passes, it’s rotten being under the weather xx Danette x

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    1. I thought she was. I think things in life work out as they are meant to. Barry was a complete waste of rations and I certainly did well to avoid his type in future!

      Definitely if you have the time, go to the Records office and research your house. How childish of his family refusing to talk about it.

      Eating more has helped get rid of the sick feeling.

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  3. I love research on old buildings and hope you do find out more eventually. Here where we used to keep the horses ( Simi Valley, California ) was one foundation of a burned house in the middle of nowhere dating fromthe 1950's possibly, and another river rock foundation with old chinese pottery shards around in the soil from another burned structure that was much older.. I have never really been able to find out very much. No OS maps and few records.

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    1. It's a shame there aren't the records there to research these old homesteads but perhaps sometimes they weren't really there long enough.

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  4. Those words are just what Pirate said often to me..but then we needed the hard experiences to be then right for each other.
    Fate works in strange ways sometimes.

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    1. I think you are right there. Things are meant to be as they are meant to be.

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  5. Love all the details of the estate and your house - imagining 12 horses in your downstairs!

    The painting is very pretty. Hope you feel better soon - is it the antibiotics? They are so useful but have some strange side effects sometimes

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    1. I think there were probably 4 in here, plus a coachhouse, and 4 in the extant stables across the yard, and then another four in the stables (I am assuming as there are cobbles outside as there are in front of the other Victorian range) where the bank is now, and another coachhouse there.

      Have been off the antibiotics for about 3 days now. Making sure I take Activia yoghurts daily to get some life back into my gut lining.

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  6. Lovely words and lovely pictures. Do take care of yourself. 13 years on without my wonderful husband, I can only echo the words on your print. I have just brought the Christmas tree down from the loft (Fakey as she is known goes in the lounge but I have a real one in the kitchen) and will decorate a bit of the house every day. Sending positive thoughts from Wiltshire where proper winter begins on Solstice some weeks away.

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    1. I will try and take care of myself. Enjoy "Fakey" and the real one. I should really get my decorations down from the attic and start putting them about the place.

      I go by the weather for winter, and it feels like winter since the snow. More heading our way I believe, but it had better not arrive until I've done the Fair next weekend! Not long now until the Solstice anyway, and then I can start looking for the light . . .

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  7. It is as it is. The words beautiful and so many feel them. I am glad you are 'solving' the history of your new house. Ivy covered ruins are always exciting. I was listening to someone this morning and they said "death is just the end of the book" But it is good to go back and explore that book.

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    1. Local history is always interesting and it helps to distract me from my grief. The farmers up the lane know lots about the area and who lived where and when but they don't know where the old mansion was.

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  8. What a beautiful picture and the words too. I shall go and have a look at the website though I suspect Peter has bought something at the craft fair. How interesting to find out about your home. Our bungalow was only built last century though it seems that every new owner made significant changes. We do know a bit about the last owner who lived here for 30 years as his nephew calls each summer but not much else.

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    1. With more modern properties, it is probably best to concentrate on the immediate locale and the history of what happened there over the centuries.

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