I need to have a little break as a situation has arisen here which means All Change and right now, I don't know how I can cope with it. All I can say is, there's an old saying, "Your daughter's your daughter for all of your life, your son is your son till he takes him a wife." This scenario is going to be difficult to get through as it impacts totally on Keith's care.
Oh Jennie, so sorry to hear of a new difficulty for you. Just what you don't need. Sending virtual (((HUGS))) and hope for calm
ReplyDeleteNot easy. See you back here when it is sorted xx
ReplyDeleteMy very best wishes Jennie. x
ReplyDeleteHugs Jennie, sending positive energy to calm things and make a path through xx
ReplyDeleteI hope the situation resolved itself soon. Best wishes.
ReplyDeleteAs a Mum of two sons, with their respective partners I can well imagine what is going on. I hope you can find a way to do what is best for you and Keith. The very last thing you need to worry about is taking a break from blogging. We are all here for you, and you are both in our thoughts. xx
ReplyDeleteThinking of you as you face another big challenge. Hugs
ReplyDeleteAlison in Wales x
You are ALL living with an impossibly hard situation dear J x D is still your son. Always will be. The ask on all, to live under one roof is never going to be easy , if you add 24 hour worry and nursing into that then it’s almost doomed to fail. As hard as it is- just pause- drive off somewhere and let the tears fall in the car, get it out of your system because you are at complete overload here. Keith needs more complex care than he can get at home, with the best will on the world that needs accepting before YOU lose your health let alone your mind. You’ve done your best, you all have. Please let some pauses in before words are hurled around at each other. Emotions are high and words can’t be called back once uttered.
ReplyDeleteBreaking point was inevitable and this is it but from this a way forward must be found that gives you back some form of a happier existence ,
Not this hell you have been in for so long x I wish I could come and make you a cuppa and give you a hug x Danette xx
It is a struggle incorporating families under one roof. I had my fingers crossed for you because you so desperately need the extra hands, but the added stress of caring for Keith makes the situation even more fraught with emotion. Good luck. My best thoughts with all of you.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to read this, hope you will be back soon. I know how you feel as our son married in 2008 and by 2010 his wife had cut him off from us and his friends. We haven't spoken since. Hugs Xx
ReplyDeleteTake care and see you back when the time is right.
ReplyDeleteWould it be possible for you to arrange for your husband to have a week in a nursing home for you to have a rest and to get your head around all the changes in your life. You would probably have to pay, but it may be worth it, and if you could get him in somewhere near to home (Builth or Brecon) then you could visit to check that he is being looked after. At least you would be able to relax every night knowing that he is being cared for. Sometimes, the Carer needs to be cared for as well.
ReplyDeleteI’m so sorry for all you’re going through. My heart goes out to you in an impossible situation. All my love Oddny xx
ReplyDeleteGorgeous rose in the photo!
ReplyDeleteWishing you peace and tranquility.
I feel for you. I expect you feel completely shaken by it all. Hugs from me too.
ReplyDeleteMany hugs.
ReplyDeleteHope things resolve themselves satisfactorily for you all. Sending hugs.
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